Don’t be mad…
when they take your man, you know…the one THEY convinced you to ‘THROW AWAY! This came to my heart as I watched reel of an ex-wife standing in front of her old house that she once shared with her ex-husband 😳. The obvious hurt as she stood there recording him yelling at her to get from in front of the house calling her names like weirdo and stalker.
I don’t know the back story as to what lead up to this but as I sat there watching the reel, more importantly her FACE 💔, I could remember the feeling of loving and yearning to be with my husband at a time when he wasn’t ready and still had a lot of growing up to do! Someone out here needs to hear this. It may not be you, but someone needs to hear this. Cancel culture and instant gratification have no business in your marriage. Best marriage advice I ever had was Put your foot on the gas and do not let up when it comes to loving your spouse!
As I continued watching this 30sec clip, the ex-husband was yelling ‘you left me REMEMBER!? ‘YEAh I’m now dating someone’… ‘YEAH she sleeping in MY bedroom in MY BED, OUR BED!’… ‘I brought a new bed so it’s not YOUR bed anymore, that’s OUR bed! WHY are you here!?’ 🥲
Understand, we are in a cancel culture, with instant gratification leading the beast! Just because there's someone else out there for you doesn't mean that that one is FOR you. And don't be mad when somebody else is feeling the same way you are ie; ‘Oh, there's somebody else out there for me’ and that somebody else turns out to be the one that you love. The one that you really love. Really, truly, in your heart, know that you're supposed to be with. However, you fell for the ‘cancel culture trap’, the false notion of instant gratification and now they are in the arms of someone else and you’re on the outside looking in!
YES, there's a thousand fishes out here in the sea and somewhere out there, there’s a woman running to her girlfriend telling everything that is going on in HER marriage/relationship and that girlfriend saying ‘Girl, you better go somewhere else and get you a man that's gonna do right by you and treat you right’ then two months later you bump into YOUR man and YOUR girlfriend hand & hand at the mall 🤦🏾♀️
Somebody else will see the gems and the value in the one that you're throwing away‼️
Don't be mad. BE PROACTIVE! Your spouse will make or break you. What do I mean by that? Having the right spouse and the right attitude towards marriage can make a beautiful life for you and your family. A nurturing, healthy environment to raise children if you choose to have them, a safe space to grow as individuals as well as a couple 👩🏾❤️👨🏾. On the other hand, a toxic relationship will breed a world of chaos and who wants to live in THAT!
Making the decision to leave my ex-husband was the BEST decision I ever made! I made the decision to not accept ANY thing less than the life I envisioned for myself! Long story short, God lead me right back to the man I was supposed to share my life with and through trial and tribulation we grew through the challenges that separated us the first time (yes those obstacle where somewhat still present) as well as new ones that tried to stop the show!
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